Not Everyone Thrives in Writing Groups

I was playing one of my favorite podcasts recently, where the host answered listener questions. One listener asked about writing group feedback on a story she was drafting, and the host commented she had once participated in a manuscript-exchange type of circle and found the other writers to be harsh and their comments not very helpful. So, she stopped participating in any writing group. She's an incredibly productive writer and I love her fiction and nonfiction books, so clearly, working solo and obtaining feedback and input from other sources has been the right decision for her.

That's why I wanted to say: Making a choice to not work within a group is a valid choice. After all, writing is an incredibly personal journey, and for some, sharing works-in-progress or details about their writing process, with its inevitable ups and downs, can be a daunting task. While writing groups are recognized for their ability to foster creativity and enable feedback and learning, they're not the ideal environment for everyone at all times.

With that, I'll highlight a few instances where a writer might feel that a writing group isn't a comfortable fit:

The Pressure of Writing Group Dynamics

In a writing group, the dynamics can significantly affect an individual writer’s experience. Some writers thrive on collaboration and enjoy the energy of bouncing ideas off others. However, for many, the pressure of presenting work or setting milestones in front of peers can be stifling. The fear of judgment may lead to writers self-censoring, overthinking, or misrepresenting, ultimately hindering their creative process.

The Importance of Personal Style

Every writer has a unique voice, and sometimes group settings can dilute this individuality. In writing groups that share marketing planning/campaigns or works-in-progress, the sharing can lead to blending of tones and styles. While there's value in getting other perspectives, this blending can sometimes cause a writer to adopt a writing style that isn’t inherently their original voice, or copying a marketing approach that doesn't fit their unique author brand.

The Freedom of Pace

Group get-togethers or check-ins typically follow a set schedule, which can be challenging for writers who may need more time to brainstorm or revise, or who find working to a clock to be constraining. The pressure to produce at a specific pace or connect on a certain date can stifle creativity and lead to writer’s block.

The Special Challenge of Critique Circle Feedback

While constructive criticism is a vital part of improving as a writer, not all feedback is created equal. In writing groups, feedback can range from incredibly insightful to wholly unhelpful. This variability can lead to frustration, particularly for less experienced writers who may be confused about what advice to take. (If you struggle with feedback, check out my soon-to-be-released book, From Draft to Craft: A New Writer's Guide to Feedback. Sign up for alerts!)

What feels comfortable for you?

While writing groups can provide community, encouragement, and feedback, they're not the best fit for everyone at all times in their creative process. Going solo may be the right choice if it leads you to personal growth and a positive writing experience.

Ultimately, whether through group collaboration or individual exploration, what’s important is finding the path that best supports your creative vision.

Which do you prefer--working alone or with a group? Let me know in the comments.

You don't have to be part of a writing group to thrive as a writer.